when is "cool" fine and when is it rude?
when is "cool" fine and when is it rude?
when replying that way in any way, on text or actually just saying "cool". my friends say cool a lot and I really don't mind it and my partner says it too but some people have thought it was rude and I had a friend say "that's what I say when I don't give a damn".
It depends both on context and on tone. Tone can make it excited or dismissive.
what if it's "Cool." over text? it seems fine to me but people have gotten similar responses saying it's passive-aggressive.
Then it's context. If you're going for the excited delivery, try throwing in a ! or a "That's" beforehand otherwise it could be misinterpreted as uncaring or dismissive.
To be honest I think it's the trailing full stop that does that. Over text I find that usually comes across like you're trying to shut down the conversation (even when you're not)
To make sure I don't mean it to be sarcastic, I usually say "Cool cool". That usually goes over nicely
If it's saying "cool" as an end to the conversation then it's usually pretty rude. You need to show a bit of interest with a quick follow up like "how did you get it?" or "it took you a while?" and then ending the conversation is fine.
i agree, may be why op is fine with people saying "cool" like that because they are not dismissive
When "cool" is clearly an understatement about something negative or is in response to being stonewalled it is rude, otherwise it is chill.
You need to find ways to convey your intended tone of voice, that's just the way it is. You could add a smiley. Even "Cool!" already looks a lot more enthusiastic than a dry "Cool." with a full stop.