Update, my bf (21m) i (22m) talked to, and he just said “i dunno 🤷♂️” the whole time i spoke to him about our interests and such. and i told him i didn’t feel heard (he said ok) and “i dunno” every time i said anything he just said “i dunno”. and then i asked if he liked my interests and he didn’t know.
And then he said he seriously didn’t know and that he was sorry to make me feel that way, but that he was conflicted.
and i asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime and do our own thing and he said “idk maybe 🤷♂️”