personally, I'll restarting myself to focus into more serious programming and get a job
I still fresh graduated, but I feel I still lack from programming basics to advance me to get a job in technology sector. second, for some reasons, I considering to move to somewhere first, and working on there.
hopefully, everything will be done in next 6 months, insha Allah
Part of my 2025 mental and physical health plan has been building and landscaping my little slice of land to go from an unfenced hillside of lawn to a walled and terraced garden.
Removed the sod and got a dumptruck load of granite stones at the start of the year. I am building using a dry stone technique and moving it all by hand on purpose. Currently finishing the main terraces and wall base, beginning raised garden beds now. Every day I move a couple stones into place and it feels like an accomplishment that is quite literally building on itself.
I look forward to seeing how it (continues to) come together.
Hopefully, i get my drivers license! Exam is on June 23th.
I'm 43, always been taking care of my parents. Getting my drivers license is the first thing i do "on my own" so im pretty excited! Then i'll spend the next 6 months enjoying not having to go through public transportation :)
i'll get a cash bonus once the probationary period is up at my new job, which i can use to knock like 10% off of the cost of my mortgage.
a friend of mine is getting bottom surgery and i'm looking forward to it for them, it's nice that people around me are happy.
also, dunno if it's something to look forward to exactly but if it turns out i do have hypertension and i can get on exforge i may not only be rid of my chronic headaches but also figure out if i actually have adhd, since amlodipine apparently lessens the symptoms. it would be nice to be able to do things.
I'm hoping to move back to the town where my friends and family live. I've been in my current place for a few years, and it's fine, but I feel like my life is on hold.
I'm kind of looking forward to my kids getting a little more mature. Parenting lil kids is not what I'm cut out for. But it's bittersweet - that gets them closer to moving out and starting their lives without me.
CT scans every 4 months... probably gonna get another nodule in my left lung nuked at some point. Hoping maybe the distended aorta that showed in my last scan takes me out quick so I can bypass all the misery of my advancing emphysema or the lung cancer possibly spreading. Aside from that, I'm just going to enjoy my family. Got three grandkids that are a real hoot right now. Counting my blessings is pretty much the priority...
Here's hoping they help!
I waited until just last year to get diagnosed at the ripe ol' age of 36. It took a whole to get the right meds figured out, but they're helping a ton. They also have the side effect of severely reducing some chronic pain I had.
I will say that I kinda had to convince my psych that I actually had ADHD despite it being super obvious to all my friends. I scored too "well" on a computer aided test (oops, all video games). The thing that convinced her was making a spreadsheet of all the symptoms if both types and making a tick for each day they adversely impacted my ability to get stuff done.
That’s a great idea with the spreadsheet. I might do that too. I wrote an essay detailing all my symptoms and how they affect me, but I do indeed like your method too. Thanks for the advice :)
Does it count if it's a hope and not a fact? If so, then I'll be looking forward to changing jobs. If I'm changing to another customer service job then I want something less fast paced, hopefully selling something I actually care about. But, ideally I'd love to get a job in the vfx industry again. I've been looking for years.
If it's a fact only, well, my birthday I guess? Which I'm also simultaneously not looking forward to.
Well since I just discovered a close friend In a couple of weeks is already going out with the girl I liked for 2 years ...( Yes he knew) and since I have so much time to my disposal while watching an empty residential pool at the young age of 23, I'm planning to feel like shit for the next 6 months :)
That sucks about your friend. Did you ever ask that girl out on a date or anything? Two years is a long time, I hope you had made a move at some point.
Yeh kinda I think she was not interested but never said it straight like that ... Always busy and stuff like that... I was seeing her at work so some chat here and there nothing too deep ...