Jesus, I've been consciously aware of the fact that I've fallen into this exact trap, again. Honestly didn't really know if others were trapped in the same cycle.
For me, the issue is that there's no viable counterpart to many of the reddit communities I used to enjoy. There's more general lots, sure, but so few that actually touch base on the same familiar level.
I occasionally land on Reddit from trying to find an answer to something niche, but Lemmy has gotten much better and more active to the point that I'm seeing enough here to keep me from wanting to go back. I don't know official numbers, but it at least feels that way.
It's 1000x better than Reddit. I know you are a real person, I'll take your real human touch comment over "18F, I kicked my 45M boyfriend out of my home because he won't work or do night duty for our 2 toddlers. AITA?"
I’ll quietly downvote anything that mildly inconveniences my worldview, never actually contributing, of course. If you mention a personal experience, I’ll still argue like I know better — facts or not. And yes, I absolutely will dig through your post history to cherry-pick something irrelevant and weaponize it in bad faith.
I hope this helps you transition over easier.
It's a good thing to have, I have a very big sense of justice. But after 13 years I think I am done. I'll try to focus on what I can do around me instead of just getting angry every day about something stupid happening.
I have only been gone from reddit for just over 6 months. Today I made the mistake of browsing it, there is so much misinformation, noise, and hate. After scrolling for about 10 minutes I realized that I hadn't seen anything of substance that I hadn't already seen on Lemmy
I really don't feel like I'm missing anything by leaving reddit