This will actually work. After a look around her, sit back down and smile. "You must've had a great surgeon. I can't tell."
Always go with what cannot be seen at the dinner table. If you get it right, you might get a chance to see later if you want. If you're wrong, they won't likely be as self conscious.
Good advice, "Oh I didn't know you transitioned, what's it like to not have a penis anymore?" Works every time.
Just say "it looks so perfect I thought it couldn't be natural."
No, just be awkward and leave the table muttering to yourself like a true anon would.
The thought you have in the shower for what you should’ve said after you failed the speech check
yeah easy out