If you could choose to move outside the US, would you?

Really depends. Can I get a job outside the US quickly? Am I a citizen able to leave at will?

I'm in the process of moving to a blue state, but I'd be open to Europe

Yes because living here is a death sentence for me. Kinda like how it was before the Holocaust. Living in Germany when Hitler came into power was a death sentence for people like me.

Probably, but I don't have that privilege and I'm not a high visibility undesirable.

in a heartbeat. most modern countries are better than the united states in demonstrable, meaningful ways.

I can get EU citizenship which makes me very lucky

You said "can get", implying you haven't done so yet. My advice? Get the EU citizenship. Simply getting EU citizenship doesn't commit you to actually moving overseas.

That said, things aren't that bad right now, but it'll take time to process the paperwork. By the time things get bad enough to force you, you may not have the time to wait for your application to be processed. Plus, depending on the number of refugees, they may change the rules on who qualifies.

Worst thing that happens is that you spend some time, effort and money and you get some peace of mind, which isn't a terrible thing at all.

I personally would not. I've lived most of my life now in a very blue area in a very red state, and I love it here. But, while I put the "B" in LGBTQ and am in a committed relationship that's far from monogamous, I'm superficially a cishet white man, and in general I'm treated with more respect by people who have irrational prejudices than many others.

I use that respect to advocate for the rights of others, and I'm not going to stop being an advocate in Texas. I have friends who are gay, lesbian, and trans who feel the same way and aren't going anywhere. I would like them all to fight by my side, but I also don't begrudge anyone who feels like they need to leave this state for safety reasons. This applies particularly acutely to parents of trans children who have to leave to access gender affirming care and not be subject to prosecution.

All that said, if you're not an EU citizen but are eligible for citizenship, that does sound like an enticing option. How long would it take you to establish citizenship there? At that point, you'd have dual citizenship and could freely move on either continent. So it boils down to whether you want that or not. Minnesota seems like a fine place to live (but way colder than I could ever tolerate), but so do some EU countries. How will you adapt to the culture? Will you be alright living in an entirely different culture or will you miss US culture too much? What does your current support system look like, and how would you feel about leaving it? You've got a lot to think about!

If you're tired of Minnesota, come to Portland! We've got your back here.

But I'd get that citizenship anyway.

As a European, I'm biased and say go for it! They being said, Europe has a lot of different climates and cultures to offer so kinda depends what your looking for.

In a perfect world (where you have the money and time to do so), I would suggest you backpack around for 3+ months and see which vibes you like the most. At the very least, I would suggest visiting somewhere in Europe first (even just one place) if you haven't done so

Without hesitation. I'd love to live in a civilized country, but unfortunately I was born in the US.

It depends on so many factors. How well you can and more importantly if you are willing to appear "passing", and/or if you are in a local area that is accepting. You will likely never be "proud" of the USA again, sadly, if that's a thing for you. It's worth grieving that.

On the other hand, big moves REALLY suck! And that's not to be undertaken lightly, even if only for consideration of timing. Would you be abandoning family, possibly someone who you want to become family but aren't ready to move to another country with? That kind of thing.

It helps to think it all through, be kind to yourself in the meantime, and think like: "which would I later regret the most, looking back?" You may legit want to wait a few years first, or, you might not. Maybe either way give yourself a year to process it all. Or don't, and if that's your call, then don't look back:-).

Skipping a lot of pitfalls by assuming like for like standard of living, family stays together, similar job, and no question whether we'd get in or not, probably one of the scandiavian countries. I'd need to do some research, but there's one of them (or more?) I thought that had both super high taxes (wait for it) and also a super happy population with a wide array of well thought out public services.

I'd settle for any country where I could be reasonably likely not to encounter death camps or civil war within the next few decades, though.

Yes. Scotland.

I've a tentative job offer to move overseas, but I'm hesitant because it would be rough for close friends and family.

America is done, but a part of me feels I should stay and go down with the ship, attempting to do whatever positive things I can in my local community.

I'm torn.

Yes, Ireland or Canada. And I'd consider a move back if I saw a pattern of behaviour that I could call a sound rejection of fascism.

There's no way someone like me has that opportunity though.

I have never fit in America, but I have no delusions I would fit in any other country. I think Canada is fed up with us Americans, so the closest culturally related country isn't an option.

Yes, England

Already did.

Yes, but I don't have any real means to get a work visa unless I move somewhere in the developing world that I don't speak the language.

If I could get a visa for almost anywhere in Europe, I'd be gone by the end of the week.

I mean, probably, but realistically I suspect that I wouldnt have very much luck were I to attempt it. Were I somehow to have a guaranteed shot at it, I guess I'd probably be thinking about either Ireland or the Netherlands? Honestly I feel like if actually given the choice, Id want to be doing a lot more research first.

Yes! Only hesitation would be my cat, but I've been looking into digital nomads for a bit.

Yes, England or Spain. Refitting my boat for the crossing now. The boat has done it before, but I haven't. It's going to take some work, and the financial side is brutal.

Luxembourg, Belgium, Norway, Slovenia

I made this decision about a year and a half ago and moved to Germany. Lgbtq are welcome here as much as they are in the US.

Moving out of America to a county with worker rights is like time traveling into the future.

No. There's 50 states with their own legislative bodies and laws. Our system of federalism is much better than any gives it credit for at ensuring that people of different places can live as they please. The limited nature of federal government means that the most changes are actually state level choices.

Yes, ireland or china

I plan to move to Uruguay soon. It has a lot of aspects that fit my wants in a country.

I fear I will soon loss my job soon because of the current USA political environment (fascism).

I've been planning for years to earn enough money to escape.

I am going straight to China if I can earn enough.

Urban environment, Great civil infrastructure, and I'd be able to spend the rest of my life as a professor and do research.