It sucks for sure. On average I invite 20ish people and expect 5 to show up. If nobody shows up I'm still eating the good food and having a couch bonfire. Ain't nobody stopping my fun
Hahaha, because I do have friends that I do like to see. But we are all of the age where we actually have responsibilities (kids, wives, husbands, family, jobs etc). Not everyone can be available at 3 weeks notice. And that's fair