I mean, I'm a gay guy, and is pretty much agree. "Pretty" is a pretty loaded term that almost by its nature implies femininity. Linguistics are weird, and while many things can be pretty, pretty and attractive aren't exact synonyms. I find men way more attractive, but there are far more women I would apply the term pretty to than are there men I would I would do the same.
Though, I wouldn't compare women to an old shoe, and frankly I'm offended by the little lesbian for besmirching my gender. We are not like old shoes!
Idk anymore. I use femboy to separate feminine looking cis guys from trans girls because I know so many that aren't trans. They still behave like and identify as boys; they just look and dress like girls. But I also see it used almost like a slur (since it's kind of misgendering) for trans girls, too.