The first thing is he was trying to be controlling of his girlfriend, out of jealousy. Seems bad, but the messages also showed he gave that as an option. A controlling ultimatum, sure, but he still did give an option. Insecure and jealous, but doesn't seem like he forced anyone to do anything against their will. Pressuring, sure, but still gives an option.
The second accusation on the other hand
Marty Singer, a litigation attorney for Hill, told Deadline that Nikolas’ accusations were “a complete fabrication” adding that “it never happened.” Hill has also denied all allegations to the DailyMail.com.
Singer called Nikolas a “demonstrably unreliable” source and “a serial accuser who has made assorted accusations against multiple men in the entertainment industry”.
Not to defend any creeps or rapists, but Hill more seems like he has problems with himself than with women.