An important reminder/rant that not every intersex person has (or will get) a diagnosis, nor should that be what is used to define who is/isn't intersex
People need to understand that some intersex people find out late, and not every single intersex person has had invasive medical trauma, and we don't owe you our history or proof of our intersex stat…
So it turns out that what I have that I had interpreted as hypospadias is ACTUALLY epispadias (which is also an intersex condition) (in THIS case, my vantage point was upside-down) as diagnosed by my doctor. So I did get a diagnosis of an intersex condition after all.