What's the most seeming trivial thing you'll turn down a GF or BF for?

Littering.

When someone carelessly throws their trash on the ground, that says a huge amount about their respect for other people, their feelings about the environment, and even their views on social equality.

It's a tiny thing, but an immediate dealbreaker.

People who throw their trash on the ground are the same people who yell and get mad at minimum-wage staff, while those staff hold back tears. They are the people who take more food at a buffet restaurant than they could ever even eat. They are the people who think the world and everyone in it owes them whatever they want, but without ever giving anything back.

I bet we all know a person whose car looks like a scary biohazard of old drive-through cups they haven't cleaned yet, but I'd much rather date that person than someone who throws it all out the window.

For me its probably someone who uses tiktok.

During my last relationship my ex started using tiktok and for the few weeks she used it i had to listen to the dumbest "facts" as well as borderline malicious relationship and life advice. The bad misinformation is nothing compared to the repetitive nature of the music. She stopped using it on her own accord I didn't force anything.

I still live with someone who is a heavy tik tok user and almost every time she says "i saw this tiktok.. " I know I'm about to hear some dumb bullshit.

The app manipulates people, wastes their time and is full of undeclared product advertising. For my sanity I cannot date someone who thinks it's OK to use that app.

Uses spaces instead of tabs.

Smoking.

Uses tabs instead of spaces.

I couldn't date a cop

Mixes spaces and tabs in the same line

Treats servers badly. Both in restaurants and in IT infrastructure.

Celebrity/billionaire worship. Just no. It means their values are wildly erratic.

I have an ex with the same name as one of my sisters. You do that once, and it gets confusing and awkward. Twice? People start coming to really odd conclusions.

If they smoke

Driving slow in the left hand lane

Misuse of the oxford comma and bad speling.

Incapacity to discuss random topics just for the fun of it. Taking herself too seriously.

My home theater. I love movies and if someone said I couldn’t have it hooked up to the main TV I’d walk. I’d rather date someone who either enjoys it or at least it’s neutral on having there.

Also I don’t care if they have a garden. But it will be classified as a hobby, not as yard work or house work when they work in it. Because I’ll never work in one.

Horniness mismatch. You'll never synch up exactly, but if you aren't at least in the same ballpark, everyone just comes away frustrated.

She said "lol"

Like actually said "lol". As if it was a word.

Didn't laugh. Like, she replaced her laughing with this, saying "lol" when she found something funny.

Picky eater or stuck on music from their youth.

Someone else mentioned libido mismatch, I don't consider that trivial.

Pointy shoes with high heels.

They destroy your feet, make walking long distances impossible and show me she values unhealthy beauty standards over her own body.

Also, shaved and re-drawn eyebrows, for similar reasons.

Incompatible taste in music. My taste is the benchmark they have to meet and I will not compromise, obviously.

No passions or hobbies.

No, traveling isn't a hobby.

If they aren't vegan.

At least to the people around me, frequent substance us.

Uses spaces instead of tabs.

Insisting on having sex with me.

Is bad breath trivial? True story.

Fake nails. I have nothing against people who wear them, but for some reason it just instantly makes me think we are not compatible at all.

Being unnecessarily wasteful with food. Not even attempting to save it or tossing all away over some easily resolvable issue like "I'm not hungry right now" Throws in trash.

That's fair, I kinda imagined working with someone elses code on the same project

wearing makeup or earrings

turns out i just don't like that

Motor mouth