Same. I'd like to 'just' start them, but with two jobs and a family Im tapped out but for sniping comments about people's spelling and occasional Linux help.
There are definitely more niche subreddits that won't exist here without their user base, and for those I still pop on over, and more than likely will continue to, except only from my PC now, which is probably good. Lemmy isn't as active in my spheres as reddit was, and I'll count it as a blessing because reddit was, for all intents and purposes, a waste of time. Or 90% boredom with 10% something else.