What controllable attributes do you find attractive?

What are some controllable attributes that you find attractive? What "green flags" do you look for?

You're viewing a single thread.

3 comments

There's some of the obvious ones like cleanliness and being kind to service people. I think dress sense is one to a degree as well, I don't mean being super curated but at least putting some effort in.

One of the more boring ones I've picked up as I've aged is financial literacy and being good with money. I love a guy with a big spreadsheet.

Hobbies is one for me too. Something people are interested in or passionate about gives them depth and character.