We somehow defederated with the nsfw Lemmy instance over a big nothingburger.
If we stay connected with those hate groups however, then I'm out. That's where I draw my line for support.
No. They defederated because people misunderstood a rule change and thought they'd allow cp imagery, which was completely false. They just loosened the rules for fictional content where the exact age of the character is hard to determine and some people took that the wrong way and caused a bunch of outrage posts.
What is the deal with defederating from that nsfw instance? I like having a feed that will occasionally have random nudes or whatnot in it, like r/all used to have. Is defederation the reason I don't see any of the lemmynsfw.com stuff even though I'm subbed to it?
Is there a place where you can see what instances kbin.social is defederated from?
Yes. Their content isn't synced to kbin anymore due to this. You'd have to visit the actual Lemmy instance directly to see the content or use an instance that didn't defederate from them. I hope @ernest reconsiders since this was really a nothingburger anyway.