Twenty years ago, Ang Lee's drama about the love between two male sheep herders was released after a long battle to get it made. It was a watershed moment for gay representation.
I was a preteen when the crying game came out and I kept thinking the character was a man dressed as a woman.
I think it’s because I was more concentrated on primary sexual characteristics to identify people’s gender at the time because of my age. Obviously, I saw the movie way too young but it’s an interesting perspective that the twist didn’t exist for me.
As a kid of around 10 when the movie came out, observing the circus around this movie passively from Europe was the first encounter with homophobia that I was ever somewhat aware of. I had grown up being told by adults that people are free to love whoever they want, and I never really saw any reason to doubt that premise. Watching the entire adultsphere have a complete meltdown over two cowboys kissing or something was deeply confusing.