Ahh I see you're a mod. Of multiple communities. It takes a "special" kind of person to want to be an internet hall monitor, let alone try and collect as many sub's as they can.
Nope, it's called growing a thicker skin.
If you get offended and classify every criticism or every person denying your opinion as toxic, you're not ready for the internet yet. It is the exact same reason why you are being downvoted from a few others.