I am actually going to be reentering the dating game after a little over 10 years. I sometimes wonder 'am i still attractive ' but then I remember this...
I'm discovering that it isn't really "am I attractive?" It's " I feel attractive."
Like I'm down 100lbs, been pumping my protein and weights, and I got muscle definition where I've never noticed muscle definition before.
Clothes that fit, glasses I feel comfortable in. I don't really want to "date" because I'm so much happier with impressing myself than trying to impress someone else.