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  • That seems kinda too idealistic view of the world.I know much more people who, if not directly forced, would let the dishes or basically any environment around them completely mould and break down before even considering cleaning up even just the mess they have left behind, than people who altruistically do clean up after themselves and others.

    I do agree that living in a cleaner and nicer society should be enough of a motivation and for some it is, but there's not enough of us.

    We can already observe it in many public spaces where trash gets left laying around even if trash cans are available or public bathrooms or showers or my favorite example in the gym where plates get constantly left on the machines and cable attachments just piled up wherever those fell.

  • Fair point, though i did try to use positive encouragement model to incentice people to work in not so enjoyable jobs. Even if not permanently, maybe in rotation.

  • Some yeah, but undoubtedly not enough to keep it working. For example i doubt that many people enjoy working at garbage disposable or basically any waste disposal. Of course these jobs should be fully operated by machines. Or any assistant jobs in manufacturing or jobs that operate in shifts.

  • Society would collapse.While working out of enjoyment instead of necessity is a noble and good goal. There are jobs that no one enjoys. Money can be used as an incentive to motivate people to work on jobs that aren't that enjoyable, but still necessary.

  • Breaking a bone in my big toe and then subsequently stubbing it weekly for months. It calmed down just to once a month after that.

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  • only in death does duty end

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  • Honestly that's a fair point and relatable. Luckily i have a family of 4 so the consumption on veggies is faster than those going bad, mostly.

  • So basically guys are jerking it to extreme makeover show?

  • Daily

  • Noup, not a mood thing. People are just inherently annoying. Best one can achieve is neutrality, by negatives and positives balancing each other out.

  • It's not the printers themselves that are evil. They were just made this way by their overlords.

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  • I've never understood that point. Home cooked meals are cheaper than fast food or ready made meals or just junk food.

    Buckwheat, rice, pasta, potatoes, oats can be bought in bulk and are one of the cheapest components. Unflavored lean meats are rather cheap as well, cheaper than candy bars per KG/lbs. Buying those on a sale, separating packages out for portions and throwing in the freezer.

    Greens (cucumber, paprika, tomatoes) are the most expensive component, but even those are cheaper than junk food.

    Only argument might be that ready made meals are slightly cheaper if comparing single item price not per KG/lbs, but most components for home cooking are for multiple meals.

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  • Sorry to hear about that. Yeah sometimes life can screw you over, even if doing everything right. But even then, basic maintenance of our bodies shouldn't be discarded, it still can improve quality of life.

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  • I do agree, it's easier said than done, but that doesn't mean it still shouldn't be prioritized. Yes it will likely come at the expense of something else, usually even something we like to do.

    Even i can get on average only around 7h, less during week, more on the weekends and that's after prioritizing sleep, but it's still better than previous 5-6h on average.

    So don't aim for a perfect solution. Just aim to improve it.

  • That's useful, though second link is behind a user requirement, but it seems to be talking about prolactin and dopamine levels. Prolactin levels are within reference range, i did add those to the regular bloodwork just to be sure.

    Though the meds on the first link are a new information, thank you.

    Neither of those seem to be approved for use in men, that sucks. Once again have to turn to underground sources.

    And that's the part that sucks, if you're a guy with libido issues it's only hormone therapy or ED meds, if those won't do anything then you're shit out of luck, just STFU and man up.

    Though still thank you, I'll keep on digging.

  • So nice. Barely starting to recover from the last world wide supply chain crisis to get hit by another. FFS

  • So many...

  • Yeah i was a textbook case of a hyperactive kid with ADHD back when i was first diagnosed. From old documents, it took the psychologist single session to figure it out.

    ASD was more hidden and that came out later in life when i was trying to get rediagnosed and test out some treatment options for ADHD.

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  • Taking care of sleep, training and diet and my body is in the best shape and functionality it has ever been and thats during the time when it stereotypically starts to break down.

    Folks you gotta take care of your body. We all have to do basic maintenance on our bodies throughout life.The most basic resistance and cardio training, actually consistent and with some intensity. Controlling most of the diet, mostly just home cooked foods, nothing fancy even needed. Proper sleep hygiene.

    All of those will go a long way to keep our bodies functional, but only if done consistently and for as long as you want to remain functional.

  • That's interesting, usually from male perspective the only meds that get recommended are testosterone or yeah ED meds.

    Sadly ED meds have no effect on desire, though those do give a nice pump in the gym. In addition to improved boners.

    And I'm already on TRT in attempts to fix it. After dialing in the dosages and frequency, i was back in square one.

    Though I'll most definitely take a look at drugs that are supposed to increase desire in women and how those are supposed to work.

  • Not specifically later in life, i just didn't give enough attention to it before to be able to notice it. It could have been there since the beginning, just masked by other factors. Internal working is a rather complicated and confusing subject and can easily take years or more to pinpoint the origin, why or how something works and how different factors influence it.

    Sex and libido goes under it, i need months to years worth of observational data to notice specific behavioral habits and trends and then collate all the information to form some sort of a theory.

    I doubt it's depression, I've have had that one before. After i quit alcohol(borderline alcoholism), so i have comparison material how that functions in my body and behavior, neither there are any other symptoms of depression. Energy levels are up, mood is ok, bloodwork is ok, motivation is ok, picked up new hobbies over the years, no depressive taughts, I've even learned to notice and redirect negative spiraling, sleep is as good as it can get with shift work.