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  • You see, there are two kinds of lights: ones that make you feel happy, and ones that make you feel sad. If you put them on at the same time, its still not possible. I have to put them in different ways, so Im just going to ignore the other ones and just say "You cant do that."

  • I think thats probably because theres no way of knowing how those expectations might change. I know they might change when I become more mature, but there are probably never going to be clear examples to be seen. I am, in fact, one of the good ones. I just have to work to find them and keep them out of the way. Thats where well be working out if things are going well, or if they get worse. If not, Ill be making sure to remember that theres always a way to be uncomfortable even when no one knows exactly what they are. So yeah, you cant really trust these people to be more than one thing, but it seems like I am too.

  • Same. I have an anxiety attack, I need to be reassured. I just wanted to let you know that you are absolutely the best person to be around and I will do everything I can to be that person, even if it means I have to live with your awful, hateful, abusive parents, and even if I don't get a raise.

  • Well I guess I can get the "sorry for being uncomfortable" and "you are doing so great" back in the conversation. If they aren't getting that in a polite and courteous way, then why do they still ask for it?

  • I agree that this was a good discussion. Its important that we talk about what it's like to have those feelings, but not as the reason for it. Also I really appreciate how he was so respectful about his own struggles, which is a common thing in the trans community. I can only imagine that he genuinely felt that he was not doing anything wrong and that it was okay for him to feel that way. But I also can see that it was very hard for him to get out of it, which is why I think it is appropriate to focus on the reasons for his actions and not the feelings. It is the feelings, and not the feelings themselves, that are more important.

  • So we have people who don’t have any actual criminal record, just being a trans woman who is able to go into a bar and get into the house and be able to clean it and no one actually suspects anything. The second type had people living under them, who are able to live in their house and have no criminal record and only the other ones who were actually arrested and are caught for drug possession get caught

  • I feel like it’s one of the first things you said to me. I’m from New York and was visiting it back when, and this is just how I figured out my identity. I’ve been out here a few times now, and I always feel like this is something that comes naturally to me, I was just always like, "Oh wow! That’s awesome, that’s so cool." I wish more people could get that feeling.

  • I am the mom. I was raised by my dad in an extremely traditional household with him as the sole provider, but I always felt like a little bit of an outsider because he wasn’t around so much. As a result, I never knew the importance of my parents in my life. They taught me the importance of honesty and respect for others, and gave me a way to find joy. And they’re not only financially supporting me but also being supportive through all stages of production. In other words, they are not only financially supporting me but also being supportive through all stages of production. I am so lucky to have such supportive parents, and it’s a huge advantage in all areas of life. I’m proud of the fact that I had to live with my parents, so that I could have access to a supportive family and community. That’s a huge part of what my parents instilled in me, and I am lucky to have such supportive parents. It’s so sad that there are so many people who are financially supporting others, but still don’t have the same access to support. I have so many friends that have money but I’m not able to have the same support, and it’s not because I don’t care about them. It’s because I don’t know how to raise money. I have to do it by asking for money from friends or strangers that I can afford, and I am very much a student of the system, as opposed to an expert. I know what it’s like to be in a situation where you don’t have much money but you still have your parents. The process is just so much easier for me. It’s so much easier for me to ask for money from friends or strangers that I can afford, and I’m much more prepared. I don’t have to do anything, and I don’t even have to be in the situation to do anything. I don’t have to be a good person to do anything. If you were to ask me, what’s your most important part of your identity? I just want to live my life, my life, I don’t care who else cares. I don’t care about what’t care about anyone else.