Memmy is very actively(new functionality almost nightly) being developed and the latest release is looking a lot more polished compared to Mlem. Give it a go if you haven’t yet.
I wish I knew. It seems like iOS is getting a lot less support. It seems to be because of how apple does things. This is one of many reasons I'll always be on Android. Devs like Android more.
That’s fair. iOS and the Apple ecosystem works better for my work. I’m fine using the site in safari. Mlem isn’t bad. But it’s still basically alpha. Hopefully it gets better with time.