most of the time it's because of something out of the person's control not that being fat is even a bad thing. I for one just lost 48 lbs literally just by getting on Wellbutrin, went from 310 to 262 in a couple months. It's usually like a genetic or metabolism thing, or they were on a med that made then gain weight, something.
Being fat is a bad thing. Its bad for you health and self image. No one wakes up wanting to be fat. Don't be afraid to fat shame, that will atleast motivate those fookers a bit
True, no one wakes up with a goal to be fat. But if you had to choose between being full symptom schizophrenic and being fat the choice is more nuanced