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Reasons Crystal gave for "breaking up" (apparently them being together was never official).
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She's way too independent and it took years for her to become that way since having left an abusive marriage (even tho she had an affair with a married man, got pregnant for him, wanted him to leave his wife for her, then aborted the baby when he didn't).
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She lost her identity, it took a while for her to get her identity back, but she's unsure if she even had one to begin with.
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She doesn't know who she is because she doesn't do anything other than work a lot and be a mom, therefore she can't offer herself to anybody.
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She's trying to find herself and she spent a lot of time working on herself and becoming a better person.
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She wants to focus on her career.
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She has a fear of commitment.
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There are red and pink flags.
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She knows she's not perfect, but there was an 'ick' and now she can't go back so she said, 'peace out.'
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She doesn't want to have to change him. She picks at the stupidest shit (her words), but doesn't want him to have to change who he is for her.
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She doesn't want to have to answer to anybody and doesn't want to have to talk to someone before bed.
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She doesn't know why, but says she knows that we know what she's talking about.
Omg 😂 the last bullet point 😂
She didn’t have all these issues when the married guy was on the scene, she had no problem being a mistress in secrecy. She had no problem accepting his money, his gifts and his offer to move her close to him so that they could raise the baby together. She saw dollar signs with that guy because he had a good job and was “her type”.
New guy on the scene is practically a virgin and has never had a girlfriend but he works a similar job to her. He might not be making bank but he must have a huge savings account. She’s got no problem going on dates with him, accepting gifts from him and having him over at her house. She’s a broke bitch right? Ain’t no way she’s going Dutch. What she doesn’t like is the fact that he’s not attractive and he lives with his mom. She is using this guy for money and it’s so so plane to see. She hasn’t begged for money since he’s come into the picture…hmm I wonder why? lol
The married man never wanted anything to do with her, other than use her for a quick piece. They only met up a handful of times. She made it out to sound like they had this deep, long love affair but it was far from the truth. as soon as he caught on to her lies he peaced out. He never intended on leaving his wife or having a relationship with her- she made that all up. He also never "convinced her" to have an abortion. All that girl does is lies.
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