ahhhhh .... I really don't care any more ... I'm nice and respectful and open to everyone ... I accept everyone no matter race, gender, identity, nationality, background, religion (or non religion) and I do my best to respect everyone for who they are .... beyond that, if people give me a hard time to be around them just to give me a hard time or show authority or try to be above me or control me - I really don't want to be around you.