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AAAAAAAAAAH
Damn mirror is faulty, still shows a beard every morning. Gotta put a complaint in, this is not the replacement I ordered.
That being said though, I'm feeling pretty good. I came out to most of my family and close friends, and so far they've all been supportive, which is the absolute best thing I've ever ended a year on.
Nonetheless, this next year is pretty daunting already, with all I want to do with it. But that's a problem for tomorrow :D
Have you picked a new name yet, or how's that going, or is it gonna be miss Brainfart? 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈
Brainfart is certainly what describes me as a person best
Hey Brainfart, so why don't you get your facial hair lasered?
I couldn't stand mine either. Like one of those things you have to do twice a day and just pretend you don't exist and force yourself through it.
Because it's an expense I simply can't afford atm. I need to go to a therapist, get an official indication for my transgender identity, and then I can ask my health insurance to pay for it.
Make sure you go to the right therapist, a lot of people are not up to snuff on this stuff, and that can really fuck you up. What worked for me was to call the insurance and they provided a list. I know them feels sis!
There's two websites I found where queer people can reccommend medical professionals they went to, so that's what I'm using to find one
Because honestly, my insurance has proven to be incompetent on a few accounts already
Ah sorry to hear that. I'm also quite poor and yet spending a ton on health insurance just to be able to get a half decent coverage. But it's great you found a solution there.
So it's too expensive to visit one or is it an emotional thing?
Therapy should be covered, but hair removal is not. Only when a therapist officially states I'm transgender, insurance can pay for it. And even then they might try not to, but I also found a resource telling us what to do when that's the case.
I'm stoked to get the ball rolling, in any case :D
Ya it's the same in the Netherlands. Really pisses me off to no end. I know people have different opinions about it but to me it's nothing but plain discrimination.
There's the obvious argument that if there aren't any hurdles for hair removal to be covered, anyone can freely do it. Which means the insurance would just jack up prices for everyone.
They always like finding new excuses to do that, and that would be a great one for them.
But on the bright side, Germany has passed a new law that will make it much easier and nicer to change your legal name and gender. So I got that going for me, at least.