Why does it seem like women are more wont to make noise in sexual situations while men don't?
didn't we all grow up needing to be secretive? is it because of the adage of how 'everyone thinks women are hot' so like even straight women would get turned on more by their own moaning?
like as a guy i don't even...have the impulse to involve my voice in it at all
The classic answer is training. Guys tend to jack it a lot from a young age and train themselves to be quiet. Girls tend to masturbate less so less practise there.
I don't think it's purely that, because I don't moan when I masturbate, but I do with a partner. I think it's just about communicating what is good to your partner. I don't have to communicate what spot is good to myself. I breathe heavier, but I don't moan or say "right there" to myself.
Start a bit later on average and rub one out a bit less than guys. There's a fair chunk of the female population that have never masturbated. Shocking I know! Not as socially acceptable perhaps? 🤷
I for one have maybe done so 5 times in my 40 years of life and do not feel the urge to do so. Only times I did I was drunk or high and I don't do that stuff. I rather just relax.
I was probably doing it like 10x a day when I was a teen. Went to an all girls boarding school and it was just well known that most people there did it.